TogetherNess – Creative Weddings in Wales
Award-winning eco ethical wedding planners
Who are we...
Hello, I’m Ness. I specialise in alternative, sustainable and totally inspiring weddings in the Breathtakingly Beautiful Welsh Landscape. I am a perfectionist, and a lover of details, schedules, understated style, celebrations, and bringing people together.
TogetherNess – Creative Weddings in Wales blends timeless elegance and contemporary style with our sustainable ethos to create exquisitely authentic celebrations. Over the years TogetherNess has blossomed into award-winning wedding planners. My incredibly dedicated team and I are passionate about delivering seamlessly planned weddings in the breathtakingly beautiful Welsh landscape.
We work closely with you to understand your vision, enabling us to create a bespoke package tailored to your exact needs.
Working with Wales’ most inspired, innovative and ethical suppliers, we are dedicated to supporting you in creating an event that reflects both your values and individuality.
My approach is flexible and collaborative, working as a partner with you to provide a stress-free, enjoyable planning experience.
As your wedding planner, you can always rely on me to listen carefully, give honest advice, and work tirelessly to bring together your tailor-made event.
On the day, you’ll find me working alongside suppliers, as a cohesive team, one step ahead of every detail, with a big smile, and a calm, meticulous approach.
Whether it’s a festival style wedding weekend with hundreds of guests or an intimate elopement in a secluded Welsh location, We are here to bring your ideas to life.
Having grown up on an organic smallholding in Wales, I have always had an interest in preserving our natural world, and a passion for re-using, up-cycling, and all things vintage and pre-loved.
By incorporating simple practices including recycling, re-using, up-cycling, composting, avoiding plastics where possible, sourcing local, seasonal, ethical supplies not to mention our green fuelled office, I aim to help couples create weddings that have a big visual, but low environmental, impact.
“Togetherness is a whirlwind of creativity, initiative and vision. In the build up to our big day it was slightly overwhelming just how big the task in hand was, Ness really took the bull by the horns, transforming our 80ft by 40ft marquee into a stunning venue for our reception, very hard working, efficient & great multi tasking skills. Ness really took the pressure off our shoulders and made a really amazing contribution to the best day of our life.” – Will
“Ness was like this wedding fairy that I knew we needed but didn’t know where to find. She was so unphased by all the aspects that I was totally overwhelmed by, taking our wedding stress in her calm stride. She had a wonderful aesthetic vision and had a realistic idea of how long things would take. She worked so hard over the weekend, and had a great ability to check out certain things with us and take initiative on others. Thanks again Ness.” – Caro
“Ness is incredible and we couldn’t have organised our wedding without her. We got married in Plas Dinam in August and Ness helped us organise the full day.
Her organised approach to wedding planning and attention to detail took a lot of the stress out of the big day for me- from providing us with props, helping with schedules and table plans, liaising with the venue around logistics, being there to support us on site the day before, helping us craft our flower wreathes and set up the venue, helping with designing and styling the tables on the day (which looked soooo good and all the guests comments on this!), setting out smores and wood fires for our evening guests, liaising with our suppliers, and much much more.
Every little thing was thought about- things I would have never considered, which was wonderful. It’s hard to put in words how grateful we were for the support, Ness made sure our wedding day turned out perfect without a glitch! Everything went so smoothly and we didn’t have to worry about a single thing.
We cannot recommend her highly enough, and were blown away by all the effort she put in. Thank you SO MUCH Ness!” – Donna and Rob
“Ness was an amazing and integral part of our wedding planning right from the start. She fully consulted us on what we wanted on our day and offered her own unique and creative ideas to match our vision.
Ness sourced decorations and flowers for us, liaised with venue staff, set up decorations in the hall and marquee, and even arranged all the flowers and made our bouquets. She took all the stress out of the planning so that I could fully enjoy the lead up to the wedding and the day itself without any stress or worries of my own! Ness ensured the day went off without a hitch, and I was completely blown away with all her efforts and the end result.” – Sally
“I cannot put in to words how thankful I am that I found Ness. I can honestly say that our wedding day would never have turned out as perfect as it did if wasn’t for her amazing organisation, creativity and attention to detail.
When I started planning our wedding, I naively thought I could do everything myself but I totally underestimated how much there is to do! From the very first conversation we had, Ness totally put me at ease and I knew I could trust her implicitly to help me make our vision a reality. Ness was there to reign me in when I got carried away, but she always made sure that we didnt have to compromise on our dream wedding.
Through her network of suppliers she was able to source me the most beautiful wild flowers which she even arranged for us the day before the wedding. All of our guests commented on how wonderful they looked.
On the day of the wedding, I was able to totally relax and enjoy the day. I can honestly say I didn’t have a care in the world as I knew Ness had it all under control and the day was just perfect.
Thank you Ness for helping us to achieve our Wedstock wedding we both dreamed of. Its clear to see that you love what you do by the care and thoughtfulness you put into it and in turn, we loved having you to share our day with us. She is quite literally an angel. We love you!” – Lauren and Barry
“From the beginning Ness was a positive force, she listened to our vision (and teased out what that vision was!) and led us through all the tasks required to plan.
Ness was incredibly organised and detailed, made us less stressed, talked us through our biggest decisions and pushed us to get those out of the way early on. She also recommended and came with a number of amazing suppliers that we used for our wedding day (Emma and her homegrown flowers were a huge highlight!) and that aligned with the aesthetic and ethics we wanted.
As we got closer to the date, Ness was a great stress relief as we were able to trust her with the many small decisions whilst being guided through the bigger ones – she took the reins when needed but always kept us in the loop and as involved as we wanted to be.
Thanks to Ness, our wedding day was more beautiful and seamless than we ever imagined!!” – Sian and Sam