DIGITAL GUIDES
I’ve created these digital tools to help you slow down, reconnect with what matters, and make thoughtful, values-led choices, without guilt, perfection, or pressure.
This page brings together my free downloadable guides and paid guide — take what you need, and leave the rest.
The Wedding You Actually Want (£29)
A decision-making companion for couples who want their wedding to reflect who they actually are
Wedding planning often starts with excitement, then suddenly there are opinions, timelines, working out a budget, traditions, trends, and advice from every direction.
Before long, you’re making decisions about flowers, guest lists, outfits and venues before you’ve had a chance to ask a much simpler question:
What do we actually want?
Not what weddings are supposed to look like.
Not what social media suggests.
Not what other people expect.
What feels meaningful to you.
A different kind of wedding guide
This isn’t a guide filled with checklists, timelines, or rules.
It’s a place to pause.
A companion for the moments when you’re feeling unsure, overwhelmed, or pulled in too many directions.
The moments when you’re wondering:
- Do we actually want this?
- Why are we spending money on that?
- Are we making this decision because it matters to us, or because it feels expected?
- Is there another way we could do this?
Inside you’ll find thoughtful reflection prompts, practical questions, and ideas for how to make each element your own, all designed to help you make decisions that feel aligned with your values, priorities, budget, and relationship.
Not somebody else’s version of a wedding. Yours.
What’s inside?
The guide covers 40 different elements of wedding planning, including:
- Guest lists
- Wedding rings
- Outfits
- Flowers
- Food and drink
- Photography
- Invitations
- Décor
- Entertainment
- Honeymoons
and much more.
It’s more of a recipe book – something you can dip in and out of, going straight to the section you need for some guidance.
Each section includes:
A reflection prompt
A question designed to help you pause and reconnect with what really matters before making decisions.
Questions to help you decide
Simple prompts to help you explore your options with more clarity and confidence.
Ways to make this your own
Ideas and possibilities that help you think beyond the default wedding script and discover options that may suit you better.
Dip into the sections you need.
Skip the ones you don’t.
Return whenever you find yourselves stuck.
Who is this for?
This guide is for couples who want their wedding to feel meaningful, intentional, and true to them.
Couples who sometimes look at the wedding industry and think:
“Why does this all feel so much?”
Couples who care about sustainability, but don’t want sustainability to become another source of pressure or perfectionism.
Couples who want to spend thoughtfully.
Celebrate joyfully.
And make decisions with confidence.
You can use it if you’re newly engaged, or if you’re in the middle of planning.
What might change?
The goal isn’t to steer you towards a particular type of wedding – the goal is to help you create a wedding that feels like yours.
One where your choices come from intention rather than expectation.
One where you can recognise yourselves in what you’ve created.
So you may not end up with a smaller wedding, a simpler wedding, or a more sustainable wedding, because that’s not the point.
My hope is that one-day, months from now, you might sit over tea, and say:
“That question changed how we thought about our wedding.”
Why I created this
After two decades in weddings, one thing I’ve noticed is that couples are often asked to make hundreds of decisions before they’ve had a chance to work out what really matters to them.
That’s what inspired this guide.
I wanted to create something that gave couples a chance to pause, to step back from the noise, to reconnect with themselves, and to make decisions from a place of clarity rather than pressure.
Because when couples do that, the wedding often becomes more meaningful, more enjoyable, and surprisingly often, more sustainable too.
The No-Stress Sustainable Wedding Mini Companion (Free)
A calm place to begin — or come back to — when wedding planning feels overwhelming.
This free mini companion is a taster of my full guide and a grounding reset for eco-conscious couples.
It’s designed to help you pause, reconnect with what matters most, and start planning from a place of clarity rather than pressure. You’ll be guided to think about your values, your priorities, and how sustainability fits into your wedding in a way that feels realistic and personal.
No rules. No guilt. Just thoughtful prompts and steady reassurance.
>> Perfect if you’re right at the start, or if planning has started to feel a bit too loud.
Get your free mini companion here
Seasonal Sustainable Wedding Flowers Mini Guide (Free)
Inspiration for choosing flowers that feel beautiful, grounded, and in tune with nature.
If you love the idea of wedding flowers but feel uneasy about imported blooms, waste, or unrealistic Pinterest expectations, this gentle guide is for you.
It introduces you to seasonal, British-grown wedding flowers and offers inspiration for creating floral choices that feel connected to place, time, and meaning, not just aesthetics. It’s designed to help you reimagine what “beautiful” can look like when it’s rooted in nature rather than trends.
>> A lovely starting point if flowers feel important, but you want to choose them with care.
